Do you think some women's actions are part of the reason why they do not get any respect? please read?

This is going to be a somewhat long post. I was recently watching a clip from a show that features kim kardashian, the slip featured Ms. Kardashian throwing a hissy fit because she "wanted to be seen as classier" and some nude photos a photographer took "looked tasteless" I can see how she was somewhat upset, but isn't her claim to fame her butt, and sex tape? Another thing I don't get is black women in degrading music videos and magazines. I am Biracial myself, and I have several black female cousins I hang out with, and we all agree that these women bring the lack of respect society has for them on themselves. Look at Buffie the Body, her claim to fame is an unnaturally large butt, and not much else. Look at shows like Bad Girls Club, and Rock of love, do these women really think that the way they present themselves has nothing to do with the lack of respect they receive? I am tired of the media victimizing women who act like animals and then cry when no one takes them seriously, when there are actual domestic abuse and rape victims that need help.